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Day 32 : Overcome My Mind When I Sell In the Phone (Part 2)

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  this article is the second part of the first part :   Overcome My Mind When I Sell In the Phone (Part 1) In this one I will write about the first actions and impluse in my mind when i have to take the phone and make call, and sit down to call !  during the last weeks , my main challenge was to keep the promise to myself and sit down from 16H00 to 18H00 take the list of prospect and make the calls one by one ! and have discussion with people !  this simple tasks , daily tasks was for me huge each day I can find justification and excuses to not do it !  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be blocked by the simple tasks to have 2 hours of calls each day  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have a huge fear to call people that I do not know to suggest them make the decision to change their life  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to find all the time excuses and justification no not ma...

Day 31 : My Value determinated by FAME !

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  today we have a new live event during the day! PARADIGM SHIFT and we had only 5 new participants in this event, after one month! this morning in my preparation for this day I begin to feel doubt/fear about the day and how people will think about us because we can not have more people in the room  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel doubt/fear of what others think about us when they will be in a small group of people  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt our ability and skills to have again a continuous group of PSL of more than 10 people each time  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire to have a big crowd to teach and share information because that makes me feel important and famous and confident  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think/believe myself a failure because after 8 years of experience I do not yet know how to have easily 10 people in the...

Day 30 : Confronting The Consequences of My DECISIONS

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  Today when I was in the process to get a new phone number for me in the name of my company, the telecom operator informs me that there is a fee for the old contract of my old company about 1100 USD to pay before continuing the new contract! my partner was there and she was participating to process this operation and once she gets the information, she becomes negatively charged toward me and Inside me, I begin to activate some negative emotion and thought about this situation  so in this article, I will discuss two things the first one is me confronting all the decisions/actions/deeds in the past personally and professionally and have the courage to confront all the consequences  the second point is how I react/feel/think to my partners once we confront such a situation where I was responsible for the consequences that we both confronting because of my past decision/deeds/actions that make me feel/ think a lot of negative things  so let's begin with the first thing ...

Day 29 : The Illusion of LOVE !

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  Love/Sex/Money is the trinity of the main occupation in my life! in this article, I will write about love and the idea of love!  Now let's see what happens when two human beings as the body get together! first human being = body = Me and the second human = body = my mate ! when we get together there is a bubble created from us, this bubble = relationship = what we agree or not agree in this relationship = consciousness!  when I declare: I love you! this is mainly emerging from this bubble created but mainly it is a feeling in my inner space!  Now, who is responsible and decide what happens in my inner space as a feeling that is caused mainly by my thought/consciousness! who is responsible: ME!  Now, who decides who will love me: ME AND ONLY ME! I AM THE ONLY RESPONSIBLE!  the strange thing is that: this love story is just a make-believe story because when you love someone you do whatever it takes to make others and convince others that you love him! why? ...

Day 28 : My Loneliness Demon

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  Last night, I wake up many times to face my demon of loneliness, the possession of ideas during my life I am becoming alone, isolated, separated from others, not able to build a true/real relationship with other human beings!  Those emotions of deception/sorrow were activated when I become aware that I replaced and eliminated all my relationship with other human beings including my family/my friends/my parents/my brothers TO and toward the one and the only relationship that I keep that is the love/partnership/sex relationship to my "soulmate"! when this relationship fall apart and lost its strength and connectivity end closeness at this moment I wake up in the truth: that I am possessed by the LONELINESS DEMON!  I think and I consider others first because I do not have a trustfull relationship with myself, now I begin to be aware of all the damage and destruction of all bad things that I did for myself! by dishonesty and untrust toward myself I killed life inside me and...

Day 27 : Doubt Myself To Support & Help Others

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  Today I had a meeting with my of close friends during our university years and he was the kind of person that have success in everything in life, recently had a major challenge with his health that makes him doubt everything in his life! during those last years, for more than 14 years, I felt all the time inferior /less to him in the view of the point of realization in the material world and money!  Today, for the first time I feel that there is something that I have to help and support this friend, that event and that feeling makes me stop and think and investigate my mind about the truth of all my thoughts/beLIEf and emotions about this event and I become has a lot of question about that was happening  why I felt all those years inferior/less than my friend?  why I assume that I am not equal to my friend just because he has made more money than me in those all years? Why I doubt all the time my ability to support and help others? what it mean really to support an...

Day 26 : Overcome My Mind When I Sell In the Phone (Part 1)

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  in this series, I will uncover and revealed, and confront my Mind when I do calling/selling by phone in my journey to 4 million DHS in 2021  ! this journey that I transform into my main challenge  Make 10 calls and close 2 sales daily in a period of 30 consecutive days this is the challenge for me to do it, to guide and prove to me that I am able to make a REAL change inside and outside, so the main obstacle to go and just do it in the physical world without even think or feel about it is mainly my MIND CONSCIOUSNESS SYSTEM that means the main obstacle between ME and the real action to do it here and now in the physical world is my thoughts/emotions/memories/inner talking/ images/word inside me! this is an energy experience with what I become as equal and one  Now the path to realization in the physical world and make it happen as the only way to prove to me that I AM REALY CHANGED is to do and have proved in physicality  in this path, I will deconstruct/study...

Day 25 : My Self Trust Weakness

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  Today I was thinking about my business and how to discipline myself to develop the habit of calling/ prospecting/selling daily! and ask me why after all those 8 years in the business I did not yet develop these habits as my second nature. also, I am aware that I trust my business partner more than myself because I was anticipating that she can close more than me and she can have to receive payment more than me! I was kind of waiting for her to do the work and have trust in her more than myself. this realization makes me investigate my self-trust and what are my thoughts, emotions, and memories about trusting myself  trust-myself means to have confidence in myself and know that I can do what I decide or promise myself to do or know simply that I can succeed in whatever I am doing or deciding to do trust myself  means also have firm certainty and knowingness about my decisions/ thoughts/ emotions and feeling   this is was my main challenge and weakness in my per...

Day 24 : What I Hate To Do That I Need To Do ?

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  Today I read an article written in 1940 " the common denominator of success" it is an article written by Albert E.N. Gray for his team in the selling insurance industry to teach them what is the ingredient of success in this industry!  the common denominator of success as explained in this article was " FORMING THE HABIT OF DOING THINGS THAT FAILURES DO NOT LIKE TO DO" so this  truth let me investigate my mind and look and search for a list of all things that I know successful people do but I do not like to do myself  so here is a list of all the thing I do not like to but those same things can make a great difference in my life to make real change and let me get the results in the system world  1. I do not like to wake up early in the morning  2. I do not like work hard  3. I do not like to contact/Call/ sell to people  4. I do not like to be rejected by others such as my prospects, my clients, my family, or any person close to me  5. I do...

Day 23 : My Resistance To Act Here

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  In my professional work, I have to contact/calling/persuading people to make the decision to subscribe to our one-day training PARADIGM SHIFT! That was the main task or productive habit I have to develop in my business with my team  now one week ago, I find myself procrastinate the action to dial the number and talk to people, and each day I find some other tasks to do and avoiding the main task that generates income in our business  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to procrastinate the main task that generates income in our business: contact/call/sell  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear rejection of people to who I can talk about our product  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to imagine that the task is difficult and worthless  I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel a great resistance in my stomach each time I think about calling people and persuading t...