Day 23 : My Resistance To Act Here

 



In my professional work, I have to contact/calling/persuading people to make the decision to subscribe to our one-day training PARADIGM SHIFT! That was the main task or productive habit I have to develop in my business with my team 

now one week ago, I find myself procrastinate the action to dial the number and talk to people, and each day I find some other tasks to do and avoiding the main task that generates income in our business 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to procrastinate the main task that generates income in our business: contact/call/sell 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear rejection of people to who I can talk about our product 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to imagine that the task is difficult and worthless 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel a great resistance in my stomach each time I think about calling people and persuading them to attend our seminars 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel relief and hope each time I misguided myself with the idea I will do it this afternoon, tomorrow morning, and after 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to imagine that this call is not worth my time and it is a waste of time for me 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must find someone who will do those calls because there are very stressful tasks 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel drained, consumed, and tired each time I did those calls or just think about doing it


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel huge resistance each time I think about calling 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realise and understand that this resistance is me resisting me to not be myself and not be self honest with myself 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to imagine the worst scenarios of calls in my mind when I intend to call 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear what prospects think about me 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel as a parasite for prospect when I call them to ask them to do the things I want them to do for them self 


I commit myself to make at least each day one or two call being self honest with myself and other 


I commit myself to not take those call personally, and do them for the best of all and exclude the self interest from the call


I commit myself to make real change by doing things and developing the habits of contacting, calling and persuading others to make decision for them self 


I commit myself to confront my fear about calling people and work the process of self forgiveness about calling / contacting / persuading and selling 







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