Day 24 : What I Hate To Do That I Need To Do ?

 


Today I read an article written in 1940 " the common denominator of success" it is an article written by Albert E.N. Gray for his team in the selling insurance industry to teach them what is the ingredient of success in this industry! 

the common denominator of success as explained in this article was " FORMING THE HABIT OF DOING THINGS THAT FAILURES DO NOT LIKE TO DO"

so this  truth let me investigate my mind and look and search for a list of all things that I know successful people do but I do not like to do myself 

so here is a list of all the thing I do not like to but those same things can make a great difference in my life to make real change and let me get the results in the system world 

1. I do not like to wake up early in the morning 

2. I do not like work hard 

3. I do not like to contact/Call/ sell to people 

4. I do not like to be rejected by others such as my prospects, my clients, my family, or any person close to me 

5. I do not like to be criticized by others 

6. I do not like to talk to people who I do not know 

7. I do not like to plan my day and execute my plan 

8. I do not like to follow my financial score ' my income and my fees ' daily or weekly or even monthly 

9. I do not like to have an open and true and honest discussion with people especially my wife and my family 

10. I do not like to build a true and real relationship with others 

11. I do not like to organize my home/car/room 

12. I do not like to ask myself questions, investigate my mind " feeling/emotions/thoughts"

13. I do not like to feel bad or any negative inner experiences 

14. I do not like to confront my emotions and my past 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to do not like to wake up early in the morning 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like work hard and make effort in the physical world and look all the time of the short way

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to contact/Call/ sell to people that I do not know and they do not know me 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to  not like to be rejected by others such as my prospects, my clients, my family, or any person close to me 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not like to be criticized by others 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to talk to people who I do not know 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to plan my day and execute my plan 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to follow my financial score ' my income and my fees ' daily or weekly or even monthly 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to have an open and true and honest discussion with people especially my wife and my family

 I forgive Myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to build a true and real relationship with others 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to organize my home/car/room 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to ask myself questions, investigate my mind " feeling/emotions/thoughts"

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not like to feel bad or any negative inner experiences 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not like to confront my emotions and my past 

 

when and as I see myself like to do something that I need to do for the best of all, I take deep breaths, I realize that this is not me/myself, this is just the slavery of my mind consciousness system that stop me to express myself, I commit myself to stop take a deep breath and do in the physical world the exact same thing that I hate or do not like to do


I commit myself to challenge myself each time I do not like to do something and express the courage to do the same exact thing at the moment in the physical world 


I commit myself to challenge my mind fear and confront them all in the moment of the event by DOING THE THING IN THE MOMENT IN THE PHYSICAL WORLD 



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