Day 92 : Support Myself To Walk Throug fear of CLOSING

 


In my last calls about TIR and TT I begin to see that I have big resistance about closing and ask people to take actions and decide..in the past It was the same but I never ever see it for myself clearly I did not see that I do all things to not close people and just wait wait wait. I have a big fear about the rejection and keep the hope 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not close In the moment without fear of losing 


I forgive myself that I have acceoted and allowed myself to postpone the closing because I fear to receive a NO 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not close now because I want to keep the hope alive 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not close now because I am not certain and confident enough in my product 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not close now because I fear to co front people 


I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to not close now because I fear the confrontation and the conflict with other part


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not have the courage to ask for closing now because I am not confident to handle objections 


I forigve myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to work on myself day by day call by call to improve my closing skills


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see understand and realize that without closing all other work is waste of time and effort 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel timid and shame when it is moment to close 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not practice daily the closing phase 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not feel comfortable ease and natural closing phase


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see realise and understand that closing is the natural end of each call and contact with prospect 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not be self honest with myself that I am here to close no thing else 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to worry about what other think about me once I will try to close him 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not give myself permission to close people.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear hearing a clear no 


I forigvd myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see understand and realize that a clear no is a step forward in my business than a no postponed and not clear 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel embarrassed each time it is moment to close 


I commit myself to practice and live daily the closing moment 


I commit myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to finish and apply daily the Grant course about closing 


I commit myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to put myself in situation to close all the time 

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