Day 67 : Ugly Face Of Competition !

 


In last week's and in my new business with a group of people over the world that we share the same vision of ending child poverty slavery and abuse in the world...and when I begin to integrate the group including some individual that I already know and learn in our community I begin to express and face the feeling of competition and self interest in place of collaboration and best of all. So I find that there is some resistant point inside me about competition that I must to face now.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear collaboration and encourage competition 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to drive my business by competition because the fear of lack 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear lose potentiel client for other even those others are close to me that I know well.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel threatened by each one I know or close to me that share same business as me.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel hate and fear each time there is some competition with other in business 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I deserve to sell to each one I know than other people 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel slave of my projections in my mind about what will happen and what I will lose.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear that other will transcended me in business 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to try control every thing about who will from who and who will do business with who.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to live in confusion about take space between potentiel prospect of my friends or just do my best to support the person to make decision first.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt my ability to sell and convince any person that is qualified 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to doubt my abilities to generate enough leads and convert them 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to focus in my existing leads and think that is all there is.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear that I can not be consistent and competent to generate the amount of business that will make me beyond competition.


I commit myself just to do my best and focus to help independantly of the results of collecting commission or not.


I commit myself to be transparent and honest with myself.


I commit myself to help other s no matter what to make the best decision for themself 


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