Day 20 : My Fear To Ask People !

 


Building relationship with people , communicating , contacting , calling people are the most challenged task that I did not feel confortable to do in my life and that cause me a lot of problems and miss great opportunities in business 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not ask people for anything and fear the deception of asking 

I forgive myself to have accepted and allowed myself to fear ask my parents in my childhood for money or some thing I want and I tink some time days to ask for money and I forigve myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel shame to do it 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear asking all the girls in my schooling process for dating and each time I appreciate a girl I had a tremendous fear to ask for dating 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel shame and unworthy to ask my partner for what I want 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think that if I ask someone for some things I make him/her feel bad about it 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear ask clients and prospect for money 

I forigve myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ask people to do some thing for me and feel shame about it 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not have courage to stand up for myself and give myself what it deserve 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to accept all the time the minimun for myself and all other around me

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel strange/uncomfortable when my partner ask for more from me or clients

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not have enough courage and determination to ask for what I want openly without hesitation 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel all the time uncomfortable about the idea to have more and ask for more 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to avoid confrontation and conflict with people 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ask people direct and honest question without thinking what they were think about it

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear and not be confident about increase our price service and fera of not asking for more money and price for our services 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not be honest with myself and express my honesty in my communication with others 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not stand up with myself and fire myself in my relationship with other s

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be injust toward myself and the being close to me in our relationship with others 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not ask more and demande more from myself and just be satisfaid  with the little all the time 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not challenge myself to know myself , to be honest with myself and to ask myself bring my true potentiel to life 

I forgive myslef that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear the conflict and different point of view with other and do all what it takes to avoid them in my relationship 

I commit myself to investigate my tendence to accept the litter and not ask for the more for me.and people around me 

I commit myself to be self honest with myself and demand the maximum from myself

I commit myself to be ask big from myself each time i stand up for some thing

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